What would you do if….
- you were dumped out of the blue 2 months ago
- you were confused and hurt and tried to get answers and recevied the customary ”it’s not you it’s me” and ”I don’t love you anymore” a few days after you received I love yous and I miss yous.
- you heard that you were the topic of conversation between your ex and his friends at the dinner table, about how he was going to break up with you before he actually did it?
- you heard that your ex told his friends he wanted to break up with you because he wanted to ‘party’ and go out?
I found all this out in the past two weeks. It’s been really difficult for me, because I have definitely been doing no contact for around 5-6 weeks, after he told me that his point of view had not changed. I later found out through a very reliable source that he told his friends just a few days we broke up that he was going to break up with me because he wanted to go out/party/whatever.
To say I am crestfallen is an understatement. I was doing no contact and I was getting there, and finding out this information has been very difficult for me to digest.
Remember I may have mentioned that he organised a party the week he dumped me, just 2 days after he broke it off? Well, the same source who went to this party told me that he told her that he broke up with me and that while I seemed sad, I knew it was coming…